What about the lies?

1. Gather Evidence: The first step in exposing a liar is to gather evidence. This could be in the form of text messages, emails, or other forms of communication where the person has lied.

2. Confrontation: Once you have enough evidence, confront the person directly. Be calm and composed, and present your evidence clearly. 

3. Ask Open-Ended Questions: When confronting the person, ask open-ended questions that require more than a yes or no answer. This can often lead to the person tripping up and revealing their lie.

4. Body Language: Pay attention to the person’s body language. Liars often exhibit certain behaviors such as avoiding eye contact, fidgeting, or changing their tone of voice.

5. Consistency: Check for consistency in their stories. Liars often change their stories or forget details.

6. Involve a Third Party: If the person continues to deny their lies, it may be helpful to involve a third party. This could be a mutual friend, a family member, or even a professional mediator.

7. Patience: Exposing a liar takes time and patience. Don’t rush the process, and don’t let the person manipulate you into doubting your evidence.

8. Honesty: Be honest about your feelings and how the person’s lies have affected you. This can often make the person realize the impact of their actions.

9. Seek Professional Help: If the person is a habitual liar, it may be necessary to seek professional help. This could be a therapist or a counselor who can provide strategies and techniques to deal with the person’s lying behavior.

10. Legal Action: In some cases, exposing a liar may require legal action. This is especially true if the person’s lies have caused significant harm or damage.